Saturday, March 13, 2010

I woke up early this morning wanting to know the latest news on TV. Nothing really to be excited about nor to be written here from those old rotten news. It's mostly repetition of the past and some news that probably been canned or hoard from long time ago. So I browsed through the internet and check some controversial issues and found the many busy hands who made the internet telecommunications more alive than ever.

Through my search found so many artists who love to sketch, paint water colors on canvas, sculptures, and the many cartoonists and animators in the blogworld. There is one blog site who used their blog as a social network accomodating friends old and new to their club and some of them got hook up through their club and eventually got married.

There is one particular "open forum site" about the many divorcees which I am interested to find out what they encountered and why they've opted to decide to end the relationship. You know for me that subject is important in this phase of life. Life is not full of roses I can tell you, there are more thorns than you can ever imagine. Reasons of breaking up and ending the marriage is probably too hard to ever think of especially you are thinking about your children first and foremost especially on matters of how it will affect the children, never mind thinking about what each spouse need to think. When the love is gone it's GONE! Then you started asking who is the culprit and who are the people behind the break-up? How many are helpful in the process and how many are taking advantage of the problem. You know there are too many vultures and demons around you right now and each every one add up to the problem.

Some people had it way to easy to end their marriage right from the very start simply because of matters of : the marriage was pre-arranged by the parents not by the bride and groom which is of course common arrangement in eastern region, second the marriage is kaput right away once there is so called evidence of adultery, 3rd - when the bride finds out the groom was actually hiding a secret like for instance he is actually a closet queen, in other words gay! 4th when the man married the woman only for status and for wealth or other way around. 5th- when the man is actually in love with the sister of the bride or any other problems arising. Only in movies you can see this happening? No. Not at all. Too many big fat liars in this world and who knows you husband has too many wives before and he did not inform you about. Like he was a father of too many children out of wedlock or he owns a harem somewhere. And you the very naive, ignorant , innocent of all human being doesn't know?

How many of you heard so many stories about women finding the truth only about their husband once their husband is dead and these women parade with you at the funeral service. How disgusting! How many men tried to lie and produce so many lies that they cannot find a hole to get out. More lies and eventually all the dirt and rubbish filled up the dumpsite. What women should know : Are men really compulsive liars and they cannot stop lying? It is always been the man to be blamed not the woman for sure based on many stories, true to life stories. Most men cannot tell directly what bothers them until it is too late. they have a problem with communication. I noticed that ever since earth is earth and you are still standing on this planet. I should have them wiped out of course with exception to the rule. My father is always been the ideal father, ever loyal and loving to his own family, his wife (my mother) and his children. The others? They have to know themselves first. I know myself. I will kill for what I believe in.

Hah. Me being frank here? Not really. There are more frank women in this blogosphere and they are smarter because they have them in books to make money. They can divorce their husband anytime they want and received so much money from their ex for they have legal aid or they pay their own lawyers. A woman once divorced his ex-husband got what she really want and in return did she really got the prize? She was happy in the end got too many suitors, got married and end up being divorce again. She made money one more time. Wow! What a business.

For Connie she once wrote that death is a lucrative business, but for other women >  divorce is better and its the most profitable lucrative business of all time.

On issues of divorce or not to have divorce until you know the truth. Background check is important. Because too many will just laugh at your decisions if it failed. There is one who is laughing at the bank. I know she made too much money but she keeps breaking her bones. The other one is I don't know really know if she is the X or just a sister. Anyway I wont let them sleep. Karma is a good thing I think. We are all in this together. It is hell out there.