My son was looking for his black short-pants and when he can't see it he got mad and yelled. He thought that it's better to live in his aunt's house. Oh, I know he is cherished over there living in a "happy home" with delicious gourmet food and he feels at home. You know my sister-in-law is a spinster, without husband and no children so when he lives there he thought he is the "only one nephew" of his auntie. The one that contributes to him, influence him on feeling "rich" being pampered and he thought that he must consider her as his own mother. That's what happened when he is not doing the laundry and he thought everything in his room should be in proper order, organized when it's me who is cleaning his room. OMG! I should not clean his room nor wash his clothes. At his age he should be doing his own laundry and cleaning his own room. No one in other homes do their laundry or clean the rooms of their children when they are over 22 years of age!!!!! He'll be 24 years old in August! What the hell!!!!! Just as when I started working I contributed to the household, I remember my first wage bought so many things for the house and I had given enough money for my parents. I am not greedy. I know what I'm doing at a very young age and I helped everything I could to keep the house clean, tidy and organized. I helped in the kitchen, wash dishes, do the laundry, fetch water from the pipe's faucet outside the house, or pump artesian well. I was working and I helped at home. Why wont some kids do that for their own parents? Maybe Canada has no better source of influence for the young people. It's been sports and flaunting about wealth and toys and cars and they forgot to influence children and young teens to respect their parents and they must not influence them on bad behaviour, bad habits and bad vices such as drugs and smoking. The schools do not take chance on influencing their students on how to respect them as teachers that they are not good influencers on how these students have to respect their parents. Know why? Too many dysfunctional families around and when these families are all over you what you have to do? Everything ends up in court. There are too many BULLIES! You report these bullies then they end up on national TV and then the male cops are then sued by the female cops. Then what happened? The GOVERNMENT pays for the demands of the female cops because they were molested, harassed and sexually assaulted and the case goes up non-stop it's like a hellish- merry- go- round and you think that was only at the time of PM Jean Chretien?
In other homes, parents kicked out their children when they are over 18 years old. You can't yell at your parents and think you owned the house and you are paying for the house. It's true! It's true when parents are Caucasians. The White Race had this customs that when the children are over 18 or over 21 they must work and live on their own, be independent. If they are not of help to their parents they should be out of the house and working. If they want to work and live in the house of their parents they should contribute to the payment of bills such as rent/mortgage for the house or at least contribute for the food supply or hydro payment. Some people even told me that I spoiled my kids and that's why they are abusing my kindness. They don't know that to keep the house in order just do what makes the house in better shape by just cleaning it without help from anybody nor do I want them to do the laundry just eat the food that I'm cooking and clean the mess at the kitchen, it's always me. Unhappy life of a mother and the number one problem in Canada. Unhappy mothers!!!!! The lonely life of being a mother. Who wants to join the club? Do you think the house will be better if there's a housemaid? Maybe but they will have to pay the maid $1, 500/month for all the work + medical and dental care. Who can afford that? I can't afford to pay a maid with that amount of money. Even doctors and PM Trudeau wont be able to afford such wages for a maid in their homes.
You wont believe that kind of tradition or customary white race traditionally being independent is no longer applied to White Race only because the Brown Race also applies that kind of system. I was surprised that my sister who are living here with her family also take that system of contribution and distribution within the household. Members of the family contribute in terms of food, mortgage payment and paying electricity bills. Making the lives of every individual, every family happier and convenient for those who live under one roof.
My son helps with his Dad with the work outside but he is paid for the work but every time he works something happened like he needs to pay dental fees, he needs to buy these and that stuff for his car, or he buys something for his personal needs and his Dad pays for the rest including insurance for the car and gas. The second son never leaves the house, he never cleans the room and never do his laundry, it's all me the mother doing the work. He can save his money but he never brings in anything nor pay for hydro bills. He doesn't help in the household just hugging the computer to himself. I don't know who he helped with his artworks and 3D Animation and graphic arts. My daughter is also a computer hugger. She helped with the cooking or baking sometimes, or fold clothes. Everything here revolves around me. I am the mother, the housemaid and housekeeper. I keep everything in this house organized and clean. The husband works everyday even on weekends. His extension of his family is stretched out to 71 tenants in the townhouse and apartments. He guards and drives around the city like a patrol car. Doing such complicated job in and out of the house can cause a lot of money especially on gas. I think his wages are wasted for the gas for his truck! In and out , in and out in the morning, then in and out and in and out in the afternoon then at night then too many phone calls. Wow. FGS! I'm almost about to tell him that he should just join the Army or the Police Academy because his life is just like that.
