THE SPOILED and THE SPOILERS.
Parents the number one spoilers! Followed by the grandparents!!!!!!! Who else will spoil their dearly beloved offsprings and grandchildren but them. Who else? Oh you mean to say there are other individuals who can spoil a bratty? Oh well the spolied brats are spoiled because of the way they make others feel about them. Sort of favoritism and the way the spoiled handle the case really well. Charming and charismatic, the essence that makes one person of group of person tend to attach and be attracted to that special someone as if that person is such a magnet providing magnetism. The likeable character portrayal or having to do with having likeable qualities.
This is so true with you or the others being attracted to some of the fabulous stars in the showbizlandia. How you are pleased to know and watch your favorite shows on TV because you like and love that star quality of the actress and actors. Or you let that person pass the examination because not only that student is very smart but because he or she showed leadership where no one can and confidence to make things happen. That somehow that person will be of vital importance to the future of the community where you live. Or simply put it this way that person surely will be successful because he is intelligent. We tend to put merit first as the first criteria to characterize certain particular individual and we tend to spoil them because they deserved to be spoiled. The same reason that we spoiled our children because of the close relationship or ties that bind within the family and what more than worth giving to their needs and want because of their good attitude towards the family that keep, care and provide them those basic needs. It's always the basic goal of giving where the credit is due. Giving and receiving taking place because it's a must and both deserving for both of the receiver and the giver. However to spoil that someone who is not worthy of the prize is a failure on the giver. But how well you know that person deserves it? Are you a judge? Have you been judge before? More or less it comes to mind that prizes and awards are not solely given to one recipient if you think there are so many spoiled and loved because they are many worthy of such remarkable praise and recognition... problem is can you afford to give them the awards? For that simple reason only few are chosen. The best of the best of the very BEST!
Okay, obviously my teens are smart. They are already smart at the time they were born. Ha ha! I know Mother's know best!
Truth will set you free. Veritas liberabit vos and honestly parents used to spoil their children no matter what. YOU HAVE TO INVEST IN YOUR OWN CHILDREN, in your own family. When you have excess wealth you can invest on others.
